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Gray divorce could result in a blended family

by | May 17, 2019 | Elderly Divorce, Firm News |

If you decide to divorce later in life, such as around retirement age, there are special considerations. For example, you’ll focus a good amount of time on the best way to split retirement assets.

Once your divorce is in the past, it’s time to move on with your life. This could lead you toward another marriage. If it does, you may have to get on board with the idea of a blended family.

Here are some tips to follow if you find yourself facing this challenge:

  • Prepare for everything: Even if you do everything you can to ensure that everyone gets along, challenges will arise. Preparing for everything in advance can help you minimize problems in the future.
  • Create a plan: What worked in the past may not work in the future. This is particularly true if your new family isn’t used to doing things the same way as you are.
  • Keep an open line of communication: Early on, you may have some reservations about communicating with your new children. By keeping an open line of communication, all parties will eventually become more comfortable.
  • Focus on one-on-one time: By spending one-on-one time with your stepchildren, you’re able to learn more about them as a person.

Regardless of the circumstances, remarrying later in life will present you with many joys and challenges.

As you leave one relationship and move into another, focus on the many steps you can take to protect yourself in the future. For example, creating a prenuptial agreement with your new spouse is a good way to give both of you peace of mind.