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Preparing children for a move after divorce

by | Feb 3, 2017 | Firm News |

While divorce brings a myriad of changes, perhaps one of the most significant for children is a move. Whether the relocation is across town or to a different state, most children feel as if their lives are being torn apart. According to Kids Health, involving the kids in the process as much as possible may help make the transition a little easier. Whenever possible, children in Florida should be taken to see their new surroundings, including the home itself, before the move takes place. They should also be kept informed of the upcoming changes well before they occur, so they do not feel surprised and betrayed when the move takes place.

The specific approach a parent takes regarding discussion of an upcoming move depends on the children’s ages. Older children, especially teenagers, may need extra reassurances about how they will maintain contact with their current friends and peers. Additionally, it may be wise for a parent to research the new city or part of town to find extracurricular activities that their children already enjoy so that they can get involved right away. Young children may not understand exactly what a move entails, but they would still benefit from advanced preparation. Explaining the process of moving in simple terms, including visuals when possible, is a form of communication that most young children are capable of understanding. After the move, parents should continue checking up on their children’s emotional state to gauge how well they are settling into their new surroundings.

The Huffington Post offers some tips for helping children adjust to a new school. One of the greatest ways parents can help their children is by staying involved. Parents who know the teachers, and who stay informed about upcoming events, are better equipped to help their children step into their new environment with confidence. The children may also benefit from visiting the school before attending. Simply familiarizing themselves with the building and some of the faculty members may make the school seem less daunting on their first day of classes. Lastly, staying positive is key. Children are very attuned to their parents’ emotions, and they can sense tension and fear. If the parents are confident and excited about their children’s upcoming adventures in a new school, the children are more likely to be as well.